Sorry for not replying to anyone who responded to my totally alone, I don't what I'm doing wrong but can't find messages responding to the links, I am 63 and never done anything like this forum before, so I apologise if I haven't replied to you
Hi Nett it takes a little time to navigate the community.
if you want to find any of your groups or posts that you have put up hit your community name 
Nett and this will take you to your area of the community where you will find your groups and older posts and be found in the 'More' tab then 'Activity'
Do get back to me if you need more help.
