Feeling alone

  • 2 replies
  • 44 subscribers
  • 377 views

Hi

My wife was diagnosed with unusable LPL 18 months ago . I have,very reduced my work hours to care for her and keep her hospital appointments . 

But just feel alone sometimes as don't want to burden her with how low I feel sometimes. Am trying to get us back to Dorset so I can help from family but we are in social housing so difficult. 

Seems the whole world is against us sometimes, so for the negatives 

Ty

Mark

  • Hi  and welcome to the carers forum, hope you find it helpful.

    Loneliness is a really common issue around people caring for someone with cancer, it is not usually welcomed as a great subject for conversation over a coffee but of course we know cancer is really quite common so therer are general more of us out there than we might expect. 

    There was a really good blog recently on the subject of loneliness we can read here.

    So glad we have this forum to share on - as for your wife, I am sure she knows how you feel and is probably quite worried about the impact on you. In my experience mostly of course the world is just content to ignore us - because nobody wants to talk about cancer - until we have no choice.

    Do keep talking, it really does help - at least in my experience.

    <<hugs>>

    Steve

    Community Champion Badge

  • Ty for those kind words Steve good to know its not just me