Hello thank you for your welcome to the group. My husband has been diagnosed with incurable lung cancer in March this year. He is 38 and Is from Tunisia. Currently living in Scotland. It is awful watching him suffer. Constantly coughing and spitting and obviously exhausted and in so much pain. I feel so helpless. I work full time but can’t at the moment as mentally unable to face people I know. Sending hugs to anyone out there who needs one right now. Lors ♀️
Hi Lors, I’m in a very similar situation. My partner was diagnosed only a couple of weeks ago with inoperable bowel cancer that has spread to his liver. Watching someone you love go through such awful pain and suffering is unbearable, such a horrible cruel disease. We have theee teenage children and I’m struggling to try keep things normal for them.
Hello
i am sorry to hear your news. Have you asked for any support to help manage your Husband’s pain ?
I know there are several ways of helping this.
this link is to a MacMillan booklet, please see if there’s any thing that can help, or give MacMillan a call for advice.
Our Cancer Information Nurse Specialists are dedicated cancer nurses available to talk to on our Macmillan Cancer Support Line.
0808 808 00 00
sending you love and strength
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