Hi, mum was diagnosed with stage 4 aggressive Breast Cancer 6 months ago. Myself and my brother are her carers, i live at least 1 hour away my brother lives 30 mins away (depending on traffic).
Mum’s next hospital appointment is in 3 months when the option of having her breast removed possibly will not be an option. Mum has several other medical conditions which means they are not certain if the operation can take place. Mum is very confused, scared and has questions that we feel we are not able to answer. We need help guidance and support for her and are hoping to get this from this website
Hi Haigh and welcome to our community, though as ever sorry to hear about your mum - all too often people do not present with just a single issue so your mums position is far from uncommon.
There is a wonderful group on here in our Breast cancer forum and they will be plenty of people there who might well be able to advise on what worked for them.
It can of course be a real challenge dealing with out own emotions and then trying to untangle our own emotions from the needs of our loved ones can be a real challenge.
<<hugs>>
Steve
