Hi don’t no we’re to start I,m caring for my husband who has just found out over the last few months that he has Advanced stage 4 bladder cancer , it was a shock to us both he has been through his chemotherapy and tomorrow he starts on the Avelumab he has it in his kidney liver lymph nodes and base of his back I just can’t explain how we are both feeling and don’t no how it will tur. Out they can’t operate so we just have to hope for the best
Hello Bawhead
I have reviewed some of your other post and wondered whether both yourself and your husband are using the same account to post? I would suggest to avoid any confusion, that you both have your own accounts.
I am sorry to read about the diagnosis of metastasis bladder cancer, advanced stage 4, I know too well how it can feel when on the outside of the diagnosis, as my husband is stage 4, but with a different cancer. Similarly we have been told it is neither operable or curable, but they are treating it and managing it well with a different immunotherapy.
I had a read of about Avelumab HERE and although it is an extememly frightening time for you, there are some positive results for this therapy.
Wishing your husband every success with the treatment
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Thank u so much for your reply yes I was using husband but have now made my own they have had to stop his immunotherapy he is not taking to it to well been for scan yesterday so we get result in a fortnight but I don’t think it going to be good news but I pray and hope xxx
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