I had endometrial cancer in 2024 - had a full hysterectomy - In October 2025 it came back in some of my pelvic Lymph nodes - I had SABR - PET scans every 3 months for 1st year followed by 6 monthly.
I'm grateful for everything the NHS has done but it's had a really bad effect on me psychologically because of where the cancer was and all the invasive procedures due to being sexually abused for 21 years from 6 months of age.
I'm in a bad place at the moment and been referred to the 'older people's mental health services. to see a psychologist because I'm 71 years of age.
Hi enuff_sed
My name is Wayne and I work in the Online Community team. Our team look after the online Community, ensuring it remains safe and supportive for all members.
I’m so sorry to hear how the procedures you have gone through have triggered sexual abuse trauma that you have gone through when you were younger. I can’t imagine the emotional distress this has caused you whilst going through something so difficult as a cancer diagnosis as well. Please know that Macmillan is here to support you every step of the way.
We would encourage you to contact the Macmillan Support Line. The team can help signpost you to the most appropriate psychological support for your needs, as well as provide emotional support and a listening ear whenever you need it.
The Support Line is available 7 days a week, from 8am to 8pm, on freephone 0808 808 00 00. If you would prefer not to call, you can also speak with the team through live webchat.
NAPAC is a charity that’s been set up to support recovery for adults who have been through childhood abuse. You can call them (Monday to Friday) on 0808 801 0331. They have a helpful information page which includes links from their charities and others on local support systems and therapists.
We would always recommend discussing how you are feeling with your GP or medical team. If you need help and it’s outside of your GP’s opening hours, please call the non-emergency NHS 111 on 111 for England and Scotland. NHS Direct Wales on 0845 46 47 if you are from Wales. If you’re in Northern Ireland, you can find details of an out of hours service here.
There are also different charities that can offer guidance and support with your mental health in mind:
I hope this all makes sense, but if you need any more assistance or tips on using the site, you can reply to this message to get back in touch with us, or you’re welcome to send us an email at community@macmillan.org.uk.
Best Wishes,
Wayne
Macmillan Online Community Team
