So the Doc’s scan found 2 lesions. One on my liver and another on my hip bone. The hip bone one is 6x4cm.
i have a biopsy this week coming.
I’m terrified. I have 2 kids, one going through exams just now, so I have to keep it to myself and my partner. I keep having surges of emotions and collapsing in on myself when I’m alone.
i know I’m not the only one who has gone through this, but it’s really hard.
i just want to know for sure so I can plan. Any advice? I’m considering going back to work on Tuesday, but not sure if I can handle it.
Hello Shambles123,
A warm welcome to the online community, although I'm very sorry you have the need to join.
The stages of diagnosis after the initial scans are often the most difficult to get through until you have more certainty and a treatment plan to start fighting your disease. I hope the biopsy results are available soon so you can start treatment.
As far as work is concerned, I agree with Leelaloo that it might be a useful distraction. I worked as much as I could throughout all of my cancer diagnoses, treatment and recovery and found it took my mind off things instead of sitting around worrying. Obviously we're all different but it might be worth a try for you if you feel up to it.
The Macmillan online community comprises cancer specific forums and once you have a firm diagnosis I suggest you join the relevant one for discussion, advice and support. If you have any problems finding the right one let me know and I'll send you a link.
With my best wishes,
Derek.
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