I am newly diagnosed (Jan 2026) breast cancer. I read something that really spoke to me and I wanted to share it. It went…
Before cancer I had lots of problems. Now I have cancer I only have one problem.
It went on to say that those without cancer wear an invisible crown that only people with cancer can see.
I have spoken to my team about how angry I feel about my diagnosis and I try not to feel ashamed of this
I am angry about a lot of things it’s mainly the ‘ why me’ part and the regret about taking my life for granted before this happened
My cancer has also made me grateful for a lot of things and I am in the process of changing my life
I just wanted to splurge these inner mist thoughts to people who get it as I find it difficult to talk about how I feel to friends and family without the anger and hopelessness spilling out and that is not good for any of us
Sending love to everyone who is going through cancer x
Hello Jessand
Welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to find you joining us.
I am aware you have posted on the Breast Cancer group - here's a link to enable you to join that group should you wish to start your own thread:
Once you open the link I have provided just click on "join" on the black banner at the bottom of the page.
I understand your feelings about cancer and other people - particularly those who don't "get it". Here's a link to a blog you may find of interest:
When good intentions hurt: Exploring Toxic positivity and conversations about cancer
I hope the above helps and I wish you well with your personal journey.
Best wishes - Brian.
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