Father being angry

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  1. Hi just wondering if anyone else has been in the situation I am in just now my father was diagnosed with terminal cancer in November he started chemo in January he receives it every 2 weeks and out they 2 weeks only get a couple of good days with him the rest of the time he is so angry and cheeky me and my 2 kids live with him and from yesterday he has been telling us to get to f### out his house doesn't want to see us has had us up all night shouting and putting his TV up my 2 kids are 12 and 14 my older daughter who has her own kids she is 25 she came over to try calm him down yesterday only for her 2 get the same told to her I can't keep putting my kids through this it's bad enough they are trying to deal with there grandad being sick never mind all this it really is affecting us all any advice would be appreciated 
  • Hi  

    I’m Anne, one of the Community Champions here on the Online Community, and it sounds like you and your family are going through a very difficult time.

    As you know, the online community is divided into different support groups so I'm going to recommend that you join the supporting someone with incurable cancer group as you'll then connect directly with others who are also looking after someone with an incurable cancer and may have experienced the same issues as you.

    To join, just click on the link I've created and, once you've joined, you can start a new post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.

    It would be great if you could put something about your father's diagnosis and treatment into your profile as it really helps others when replying to you and also when looking for someone on a similar pathway. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.

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