We actually get the blood test results tomorrow but I know it’s going to be bad news. I’m eating or sleeping. How do I support when I’m not coping myself.
Hello Flayvia
A warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community - I am Brian one of the Community Champions here on the Community and am also in the 4th year of my personal Prostate Cancer journey.
This is the Cancer Chat Group where you are welcome to post, however we do have a dedicated Prostate Cancer group where I hang out and here's the link you need to join us:
Once you click on the link I have provided and the page opens up, click on "join" on the black banner at the bottom of the page. Once you have joined the group, you can introduce yourself in the "New Here - Say Hello" section. You can either copy and paste or repost your post above there. I can assure you of plenty of support for you and your husband.
In the meantime please do contact our Support Line on 0808 808 00 00 (8am ton8pm 7 days a week).
I look forward to meeting you again in "our" part of the Community.
Best wishes - Brian.

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