So 5 months after my diagnosis - I found myself at a point where I was able to share my diagnosis with more than the handful of people that already knew. I was completely overwhelmed at diagnosis and have continued to feel that way for some time - but I seem to have reached a point where I am not quite so overwhelmed, I was also unsure about how I would respond to how others felt about my diagnosis. I considered my words very carefully and contacted the people that I knew really needed to know. Providing an explanation as to why I had felt unable to share previously, Some have responded with kindness and a small number have not responded at all. Fortunately, I had chosen to keep my diagnosis to myself until I was ready for the responses of others. This way, I have been able to step back and take a pragmatic view around a non response and not feel quite so hurt. I understand that for others, cancer can be very scary and they may not wish to talk about it at all. I do get that. But I have still felt a little hurt and perhaps a bit surprised by the non response from people whom I thought would be the first to offer help? I think it just goes to show how important it is to really consider yourself and your feelings before you tell others and trust your instincts if they are telling you to go slowly with any information about yourself.
Hello Pickles
I know just where you are at. I have a very supportive family but once word got out I soon discovered who my true "friends" were. I honestly think in this day and age some people still see cancer as a "death sentence" and it's also so easy to "catch".
You are doing very well be being online and joining in with the Community here. There is a wealth of support and understanding and I hope you find this helpful and informative.
Please do feel that you can share your feelings and if you need any help and support we are all here for you.
Best wishes
Brian.
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Hi Brian. Thank you so much for your response. Its coming in here and chatting to others that has really helped me. Especially chatting with people who have had similar experiences, i dont feel quite so alone. 
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