Hi my dad was diagnosed with secondary liver cancer that spread from his bowel they want to take 80% of his liver away he won’t talk about it so I’m confused about the risk of him surviving also how do I approach the subject to be able to talk to him x thank you for any advice
Hi L01and I see it’s your first post so welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your dad’s diagnosis and the challenges you are dealing with. I have no experience that can help you but can I first recommend you consider joining our supportive Bowel (colon and rectum) cancer and Liver, secondary cancer support group. These groups are safe places to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support from family members who are navigating the same journey.
When it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of supporting family and friends you may also benefit from joining our Carers only support group where you will connect with others navigating the same support challenges.
To join a group first click on the “Bold Links” I have created above then once the group page opens click on “Click to Join” when the black banner appears or “Join” under “Group Tools” (this all depends on the device you are using)
You can then put up your own post when you’re ready by clicking “+new” or “+” in the top right next to the group title. You can copy and paste the text from this post into your new post.
You can also scroll through other members posts and click “Reply” to get involved.
Our Support Line teams are available 7 days a week, 8am-8pm on freephone 0808 808 00 00, email or live webchat where you will find one of team there to help you out. We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful so do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area, do also check for a local Maggie's Centre as these folks are amazing.
Do get back to me if you need further help.
