Dilemma- need advice

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Hello My dad is currently receiving end of life care and is most probably in his final weeks. I am doing my best to support my mum snd also managing my own feelings but struggling. I am due to be going on holiday in afew weeks with my husband and son snd fair to say we all need this holiday after a particularly challenging year. My dilemma is whether to go. Whatever I decide to do I am going to let someone down. If we cancel I let my husband and son down but to go I may not be there for mum. My mum snd I have discussed this at length and we both agree dad would hate the thought of me not going. I can hear his voice strongly although I have not had this discussion with dad. I know dad would be so upset to think I am worrying over this. Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thank you

This is a hard one and honestly only you and your immediate family can make the decision. You may want to join and post your text in our Supporting someone with incurable cancer group where you will connect with others who may have been in thee same position.

Mike (Thehighlander)

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