Hi, I'm new here. My husband was diagnosed last Tuesday with what appears to be primary liver cancer with secondaries in the lungs and stomach. From his symptoms it looks like stage 4. He is in denial, and I'm not coping well, trying to be strong and positive. I'm just reaching out for advice and support.
Hi , I see this is your first post so welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your husbands diagnosis. This is such a challenging and stressful time for you all.
When it comes to the practical challenges of supporting someone on a cancer journey like this you may benefit from joining our supportive Carers only group. This will be a safe place to talk to others who are supporting family and friends on their journey.
If you'd like to connect in with a group click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New or + (Depending on the device you are using). You will then see a dropdown menu so hit ‘Chat’ or ‘New here, say hello’ and you are ready to go.
You could copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also search through existing ‘Discussions’ and click [reply] if you want to put up a comment.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear. You may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful but do allow a few working days for a reply.
Talking to people face to face can help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
