Hi,
I’m awaiting tests and diagnosis, and I am feeling very stressed about the whole situation, I’ve been to the hospital and upon feeling around tummy and my bum they want to send me for a camera, I’ve been reading up which is probably the worst thing to do, but I have swollen lymph nodes around my groin, armpits and my neck, and also a lump in my gooch near my anus.
I’ve lost weight without trying and my appetite has gone, I’ve got a young family as I am only 30 and 2 young children.
im waiting around for an appointment from the hospital for the camera but my symptoms have got a little worse, I’ve constant pain on my anus, bad headaches.
if anyone has had something similar I would appreciate a little knowledge and reassurance.
thank you all!
Hi and I see it's your first post so welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your on going diagnosis. This indeed can be such a challenging and stressful time for but I do hope you find the community a safe place to get support and ask your questions.
Each cancer journey can be so different so sometimes it's best talking with others who have walked the same cancer diagnosis process. You will find all our cancer specific support groups in this list so do have a look through if feel that joining one of the groups helps please do so.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support or just a listening ear. You may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful but do allow a few working days for a reply.
Talking to people face to face can help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best.
