Hi again Peter, this is a general chat group and you may not get the help you need.
As I said in your first post do call the Macmillan Support Line ASAP.
It’s open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 and talk this through with our support workers as they will have information that will help.
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
We’re here to provide physical, financial and emotional support.
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