I guess you mean you need some support for yourself so you can support your mum. The best groups for you to join are the bowel cancer group to ask questions about treatment etc, and the carers group to seek support for yourself and to talk to other people who are also supporting people.
If this is all new to you and your mum, it can all be a huge shock, but try not to panic, life with cancer is not the horror show that many people fear and you will get support if you ask on the most appropriate forums. This group is a much more general one, and not always very busy. Good luck
