Government demands for overpaid money regarding my deseased wife

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When Anne was alive she was getting the higher rate of disability allowance (!Now known as PIPS) as her cancer was terminal. Just after two months following her passing I get a letter saying an over payment had been made following her death and I was requested to pay it back. My mind went numb. Anxiety set in. And I felt deeply  hurt at such a sensinsitive  time. All for a paltry £86 +. There were various methods to reimburse the money but I decided to write a cheque. It took three writen cheques before I eventually wrote the final one correctly. Even then as I sealed the prepaid envelope up I had doubts so I slit it open to see it again. It was OK, I then had to reseal it with celotape before posting. My head was in a spin. Now I've received yet  another letter this time from the state pensions scheme saying they had overpaid Anne's pension and wanted something like £300+ repaid. I cant even bring myself to look at the letter again to see the correct amount. Im having to ignore it. I'm not going through that pain again. My emotions are still raw. Think how much money both these organisations are saving since Anne's death with no further payments  yet they still want their final  pound of flesh. All government departments plus banks and building societies relating to Anne had been informed through a scheme called ' Tell All.'  arranged through the registra of births and deaths when Anne's death was registered. So how come this distressing situation has arisen? And both organisations are denying any blame for this situation. It was just an error! 

Love and Light 

Geoff

  • Hi Geoff, ring the helpline n ask them about this situation on 0808 808 0000.

    Love n light to you too,

    Sue

    Fear of the unknown is the worst thing. Once we know what we're facing, we find the strength to deal with it.
  • Hi buttercup01

    Thanks for the helpline number. But they made it clear in both letters that overpayments had been made. Also that nobody was at fault. I can't see any changes to their request/demands. I've paid the 86+ to the invalidity benefit people. The pensions dept can take a running jump. I can't even bring myself to look at that letter a second time. I'm not attempting to withhold payment, I of course have the money but I'm not prepared to deal with it 

    Love and Light

    Geoff

    At the end of all our journeying will be to find ourselves back where we started knowing the place for the first time. TS ELIOT.

  • Sorry to hear this Geoff, we have been dealing with this with regards to my wife’s mum (not cancer related)

    You may have to deal with this sooner than later as the ‘system’ will just add on penalties for non payment.

    Do use the Macmillan Support Line Services on 0808 808 00 00 this free service covers Financial Support mostly open 8.00 to 8.00 but check the link.

    They will be able to advise you with regards to penalties that can be added.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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  • Hi Thehighlander

    This is just a point of interest. 

    Found on line dated March 2019. ( Moneybox)  Sorry this site won't let me cut and paste.

    The UK  government announced that the state has no legal status in asking for overpayments regarding overpaid state pensions following the death of a person. As such they will never pursue non payment. This is never stated in the letter sent asking for the money to be repaid. This follows ftom a stated case at court regarding a demand of £600 from the relatives of a destitute bereaved person. 

    At the end of all our journeying will be to find ourselves back where we started knowing the place for the first time. TS ELIOT.

  • Hi again Highlander. 

    This is the website

    thisismoney.co.uk/pensions

    Love and Light 

    Geoff

    At the end of all our journeying will be to find ourselves back where we started knowing the place for the first time. TS ELIOT.