I watched the whole video as I have always liked Stephen Fry. You are right, the end ( last 10 mins or so) does say what so many people would like to be able to articulate as well as he can. C.S. Lewis who was a Christian believer, in his account of his grief after the death of his wife ( A Grief Observed) wrote of his questioning of his faith, " Is God just a vivisectionist then?". He comes to a different conclusion but it is worth a read for the arguments he goes through with himself.
Loved the Bertrand Russell quote re the teapot and agnosticism!
