Hi
I’m 51, following 3-4 years of highly irregular periods where I’d go 8-9 months with nothing then get one, I’m now in the 5th month of constant bleeding. Sometimes so heavy I can’t leave the house, sometimes light so I only need a liner but always bleeding.
i had a Tv scan (very traumatic) showing 8mm endometrium thickness and a polyp and was referred for hysteroscopy. I’ve refused the 2 week cancer referral appointment as it’s without anaesthetic and due to incidents in my past I won’t even have a smear test.
I've been told I have to wait 6 months and the support and urgency has evaporated, as if I’ve personally offended the hospital by refusing a traumatic invasive procedure which, in my mind, is akin to consenting to being medically r*ped. I have got obvious issues with anything gynae but am also terrified in case it is anything bad.
I feel abandoned but just as scared of any gynae procedure as I am of what might be wrong.
