I am hoping for real experiences to help me make a decision. I have a 2.5cm Neuroendocrine tumour in the neck of my pancreas. For info, my mum died of pancreatic cancer (so I know it could be worse). I have been offered Lanreotide to try to keep it from growing but the consultant would prefer surgery - hopeful for debulking but probable pancreatectomy and spleenectomy. The issue I have is I have a solitary left kidney in renal stage 3 failure (not on dialysis or transplant list - managed with medication). Because of this I get poorly often and already take abit longer to recover. I obviously want the cancer gone and surgery felt like the best option until they said they'd probably take my spleen. My concern is if they take my spleen, what does life look like? Please can people share their real experience with me so I can make a real decision (rather than just the surgeon telling me it's what I should do and why am I questioning it).
Please no judgement for my hesitation on surgery