When does chemo start?

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Hello!

my husband has had a cancerous growth in the ampulla of Vater removed via the Whipple procedure just over a month ago. We were incredibly lucky that it was operable and it hadn’t spread yet, but he has been told he will still need chemotherapy as a precaution. Today we finally received the appointment letter. He will see his oncologist on fourth August. However, because we also have two children who have found all of this quite difficult, we really want to spend some time away on a family holiday together before his chemo starts. Should we try to do that immediately, that is before his appointment, or will his appointment only set out a timeline rather than start his chemo immediately? We weren’t sure if there would be time for us to go anywhere afterwards. Would you know how these things normally work? Thank you so much!

  • Dear Finchbird,

    Thank you for getting in touch and welcome to the Online Community. I’m Kerry one of the Cancer Information Nurses here on the Macmillan Support Line.

    I’m sorry to hear of your husband’s diagnosis but great to hear it was operable and it hadn’t spread.

    It is understandable that you would like some time away all together as a family before your husband starts chemotherapy.

    As we don’t have access to your husband’s medical records, we can’t say for certain what timeframe is required specifically for your husband. It can usually take a week or two for the chemotherapy to start after the specific treatment is agreed. The consultant might be happy for you to have the holiday before it starts. It may be best to reach out to his Clinical Nurse Specialist (CNS) or his Oncologist to try and clarify this further. You can also call us to chat this through in more detail.

    When a person has a cancer diagnosis who is or has undergone treatment, there are many things to consider when booking a holiday. We have further travel information here.

     I hope you are coping as well as can be expected as we understand the impact it can have supported a loved one with cancer.

    Please know we are here to support you all through this. I can see you have accessed some of our friendly online community forums too.

    I’m unclear of your children’s ages but I wanted to let you know we have information on talking to children about cancer if you would find it helpful.

    I hope this information is helpful. If you have any further questions, please get in touch again. You can also speak with the Macmillan Support Line team of experts. Phone free on 0808 808 0000 (7 days a week, 8am-8pm) or send us an email or contact us through Webchat.

    Best wishes

    Kerry

    Cancer Information Nurse Specialist

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  • Thank you so much, that’s really helpful!