Petrified of not knowing if it's cancer

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Good morning!

I found a lump in my right outer breast beginning of March. I've been seen, mammogrammed and scanned at the end of March and was told it was a cyst and they sent me on my merry way.

3 months on I felt another thickening under my arm (same side) so I went back. They didn't find anything in my armpit but said the existing lump is NOT a cyst, she also said she doesn't think it's cancer. I've been misdiagnosed. They tried to drain it unsuccessfully, then took 3 samples of biopsy and given me an appointment in 2 weeks time for the result. This was 7 days ago. 

I called them this morning, the receptionist told me the results are there but she isn't able to give them to me, then mumbled something like "I'm not sure if they're ready yet" and told the nurse will give me a call.

Now I'm thinking are they not ready with the treatment plan?? Would she be allowed to tell me if it was benign?? Is the sonographer able to see if it's likely cancer or not? I have absolutely no faith in their judgement at this point Disappointed relieved

  • Dear  

    Thanks for getting in touch with Macmillan Cancer support during what sounds like an anxious time. I’m Linda, one of the nurses from our support line.

    It’s understandable that you called to see if the results were available, and it sounds like the receptionist may not have been clear about this with their response.

    As administrative staff are not medically trained they are unable to give results. This can be because of the technical medical information that is included within results, that they may not understand. And, irrespective of the results, they may not be able to answer any questions that you could have. This is why results are given by a nurse or a doctor.

    Sonographers go through intensive programmes to allow them to use ultrasound scans. They will be trained to examine areas of the body and interpret the pictures that they are looking at. There will be particular characteristics that show on the screen that they should expect to see. If there are unexpected or unusual features, they will look at these in more detail to establish the reason. They will then use a specific scoring system to report the likelihood of something being cancerous or benign. Though no test is 100% accurate research shows that ultrasound technology has a hight rate of success for assessing for cancer and other conditions of the breast.

    Ultrasound pictures can help to rule out abnormalities and can help with the diagnosis of cancer. But they are only one part of the jigsaw, and this is why other test like biopsies are needed to help understand more. Having a biopsy is regarded as the gold standard assessment and this should help to determine what is going on.

    If there is cancer present it is likely that the results would be discussed at a multi-disciplinary team meeting, this is where treatment recommendations are made. Some people may have their results before this meeting and have a preliminary plan made, and others may wait until after the meeting. It can vary from hospital to hospital, but these meetings do take place regularly.

    Waiting for results can be a stressful time and I hope that you hear back from the nurse soon. In preparation it might help to look at our information Questions to ask your healthcare team.

    And if you would like to chat with our nurses you are welcome to call our support line or use our online chat service.

    Though we won’t be able to tell you any more than you already know it can sometimes be good to call us for support and guidance

    Best wishes

    Linda

    Macmillan Cancer Information Nurse

    The Macmillan Support Line offers practical, clinical, financial and emotional support. You can call us free from landlines and from most mobile phone networks on 0808 808 00 00, 7 days a week, 8am – 8pm or contact us by email or webchat

    Ref: LM/GH

  • Many thanks for your reply. A nurse called and said my results are going to an MDT meeting but also said that all biopsies are are seen by the disciplinary team. I’m just nervous they told me this because they don’t want to tell me through the phone…the nurse did say she doesn’t know my results. My mind is just going into overdrive at the moment after mentioning MDT… 

  • Hi Merci,

    Thanks for getting back in touch. I’m glad you have heard from the nurse but appreciate that you didn’t get the response you had hoped for.

    Though practice varies throughout the UK, some MDT’s will discuss all biopsy results at their meeting. This allows for the specialty team to agree that they are happy, and no further action is needed. In the case of some benign results there may be a discussion about whether further tests or treatment should be offered. And where cancer has been found it allows for treatment planning.

    The not knowing period, waiting for results, can be the hardest time. And lots of people do tell us that once they know the outcome, irrespective of what they are told, that nerves and anxiety begin to ease. This is either because they know that there is no cancer, and if there is they have a plan and timeline to work with.

    If you’d like to call us, we’d be more than happy to take your call. This can be helpful as it allows us to privately support you, rather than chat on an open forum

    Take care

    Linda (Cancer Information Nurse Specialist)

    Ref LM/AW