Breast cancer paranoia

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Hi! I’ve always been told I have kind of lumpy breasts, but recently my husband has been diagnosed with testicular cancer and is going through chemo so I’m more paranoid. I’m still breast feeding my toddler and my one breast tends to get kicked by him at night quite often. I went to the doctors and she said she thought it was breast tissue especially around period times and to feel for a small round lump which I then felt like I could feel so made another appointment, this appointment the doctor said she couldn’t feel much at all. I was further away from period and breasts didn’t feel as lumpy. These are also doctors who were convinced my husband didn’t have cancer so it’s not done much to help my nerves. Anyway nearer my period I can feel a lump again/ could be breast tissue? Is this normal ? Sorry  I am just so scared now.

  • Dear BM89,

    Thank you for getting in touch with us. I’m Alison one of the Cancer Information Nurses on the support line. Welcome to our online community and I’m glad you’ve reached out to us.

    I’m sorry to hear you have symptoms and are worried you may have cancer. The best way to find out what is causing these problems is to visit your GP. They can examine you and arrange any necessary tests. NICE provides clear guidance to GPs on which symptoms may lead to a cancer diagnosis.

    Most breast lumps are not cancer, but to give you some peace of mind, it’s not unreasonable to ask your GP to refer you to the breast clinic to be properly assessed.

    It’s not uncommon to feel more lumps in your breasts around the time of your period. This can be due to the change in hormone levels in your body and could be a benign (non-cancerous) condition like fibrocystic breast changes. Although many people share your worries, most find their symptoms are caused by another illness or conditions.

    It’s only natural for you to be worried, particularly with your husband going through treatment for cancer as well. It’s important you look after yourself and reach out for support if you need it. You might find it helpful to chat in more detail with one of our nurses or emotional support advisors on the phone, or our online community can offer invaluable support from others going through similar situations.

    I hope this information is helpful. Please feel free to get back in touch if you want more information or support.

    Best wishes,

    Alison (Cancer Information Nurse Specialist)

    You can also speak with the Macmillan Support Line team of experts. Phone free on 0808 808 0000 (&days a week, 8am-8pm) or send us an email.

    Ref / AP /DS