- My mum went into hospital via A&E for serve sciatica on 14th May, on 15th we were told she had bone cancer(they indicated it was metastasis), the following day the found the primary cancer in the lung.
The bone cancer is on a vertebra and has since shattered the vertebra and caused cauda equina (root nerve compression), causing significant pain and very little mobility, We have just had 4 weeks trying to get on top of pain relief to be told my mum would be better in a hospice as they will be better placed to get on top of the pain. Before the hospice was arranged, mum had 4 good days, they then told my mum today she will be sent home on Monday (3 days notice).
They previously promised me they would not rush sending my mum home and would work with the occupational therapist (and the family) to get everything in place/sort the house etc. Because of the pain, my mum can’t sleep in a bed, we don’t have a suitable chair for my mum to sleep in, she can barely walk but has no stair lift and she won’t be able to get in/out of the bath.
Surely there should be more consideration before deciding to send my mum home. Is there a process they follow?
I was supposed to be consulted but the occupational therapist but they spoke with my mum and told her the news, she goes along with what they suggest and to be honest has not considered what going home will mean.
Is this a normal process, should a home assessment not be done?Any advice would be very welcome as this is really stressing the family.
many thanks
Jan