Hi my son of 36 was diagnosed with tongue cancer 11 months ago due to smoking and working in a wood dust environment and has since had his tongue removed , a flap made from his thigh and chest. He underwent chemo and radio therapy which finished last October . He has a PEG feed and can only swallow small cups of coffee during the day via his mouth , he does choke from time to time and we don’t think he will ever manage to feed orally.
The surgeons said he was stage 3/4 before the op but then said stage 4 due to another tumour on the back of his tongue when they operated and due to the cancer being in ‘1 of the lymph nodes , which exploded’.
his weight has dropped from 14 stone to 10 stone 11 and seems to be holding there .
my question is this , the surgeons said he has a 50 per cent chance of surviving the next 5 ( or 2 not sure ) years but this was before the op and lymph biopsy . I am looking for someone to let me know what the reality of surviving this might be so that I can get my head in the right place, although I am very positive I am also very afraid for him . Thank you for any info