Hi
I have recently had a melanoma removed stage PT1a.I will be having a wider excision.Whilst I understand that this has been caught early I am struggling with how to go forward and protecting myself .I understand that I need to do regular checks but I am finding it hard to grasp that it is totally my responsibility for spotting any change in my skin.I think this stems from the fact that my melanoma was only discovered by pure chance .Following this my husband had said that it had been there all summer.(it was in the middle of my back that I can’t see.
Also we have a second home in France and we live there six months of the year.Even if I take the correct precautions I know I will be at risk .I am unsure how I am going to cope with the outdoor lifestyle that we live there without being terrified all the time .Also if I want to sell our property that will affect my husband and family too.
I would be grateful for your thoughts