Gastronomy

Hi Tara1

Thanks for getting in touch.

My name is Paula and I am one of the Cancer Information Nurse Specialists on the Macmillan Support Line.

I am sorry to hear the difficulties your husband is having post-surgery and the struggles you’re also having trying to manage his care alone. I know at the moment you feel like no one cares, but people do care when you get the right support.

Problems after surgery are common and can occur anytime either whilst in hospital or when discharged home. Eating and drinking is one such problem many people struggle with which can be upsetting and worrying.

I am unsure what you mean by Langley, but as your husband’s case appears complicated further input from the dietician, GP and his team may be needed at this stage. We suggest contacting them as soon as possible to get further advice.

Your husbands GP can prescribed nutritional supplements and they should be free. You may find our booklet the building up diet offers suggestions you may find helpful to look at. The Oesophageal and Gastric Association also have a recipe book for eating problems.

Infrequent toilet habits may be related to your husband’s low calorie intake as he is eating less food or due to his surgery. It’s important to continue his fluid intake as dehydration can make his constipation worse. Your husbands needs further urgent assessment of his current symptoms by his team or GP today.

It’s never easy when a family member has cancer and you feel isolated. You may find it helpful to talk to one of our nurses on the support line. Sometimes giving us a call can help. It’s a free phone number on 0808 808 0000 and we are here 7 days a week, 8am-8pm or email us. 

I hope this information has been helpful, please don’t hesitate to get back in touch.

Ref: PW/KH