Hello,
I'm 31, I was diagnosed with HG DCIS 8cm lump in my right breast. I've had the mastectomy + implant reconstruction and now waiting for my results.
Now during this time I had a genetics test which I've not discussed with the consultant yet fully as she will do that on the 17th November but they have advised me it's negative.
My problem is that my family is cursed with cancer.
My grandfather died of lung cancer (I understand with his cancer, smoked from 11 all his life, so i expected this outcome) my great aunt with breast cancer, my mother breast cancer twice, my aunt breast cancer, my sister ovarian cancer and now DCIS (result frome core biopsy) with myself.
If this doesn't scream genetic i don't know what does. My husband is cross with me as I wasnt happy with the results. Its not that I'm not happy it's that I can't comprehend the results.
It's clearly runs in the family but the mutation gene isn't there. So why has it hit almost every single female in my family on my mother's side. Also I'm 31, I was always told I would get breast cancer by my mum when she got it, I just thought I would be in my late 40s early 50s.
I just fully expect to have that mutation gene. Is it wrong to not believe it. Is my husband right to be cross with me for this.
Can I get some help in understanding please