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Somebody special recently told me about possible relapse

Harry2005
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I don’t know much other than what they told me. They said that it’s “very possible” that the cancer might have come back and that if it has they will have a maximum of 2 years. The cancer they beat was at stage 4 (I don’t know if that matters at all) we are both really young and I’m struggling very hard to deal with this information. Does anybody have any personal experiences/advice or just anything to help me keep my peace of mind and manifest them being well into existence. Anything is appreciated like I said i’m just a very young person trying to navigate something that is absolutely devastating me. I wish you all the best and thank you in advance for any replies <3

  • Hello @Harry2005

    I can see that you are struggling with this. We are very much here for you, and we will provide you with a space to express how you are feeling and talk about your fears. Please could you tell us a little more about the situation.

    In addition to using the online community, you’d be welcome to get in touch with our freephone support line 0808 808 00 00 or our online webchat service. Both open 8am – 8pm seven days a week. We will offer emotional support and look to provide any guidance you may need. In terms of understanding more about what could happen if the cancer returns, we have our information nurses here who may provide you with more general guidance about that.

    Please do stay in touch with us about this, in either of the ways mentioned above, and we will look to guide and support you as best we can.

    David, Information and Support Adviser

    Remember you can also speak with the Macmillan Support Line team of experts. Phone free on 0808 808 0000 (7 days a week, 8am-8pm) or by email.

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