Hello,
I’m sorry to reach out I understand everyone is so busy but I can’t manage to help my husband and what to do? I don’t know who to ask I’m struggling so much and have been for a very long time
in brief husband diagnosed prostrate c (picked up on routine bloods at a certain age) forward to him having radical surgery, wiped him out and the depression kicked in he couldn’t do farm work etc Iave struggled to support him every step of the way .. he feels a failure despite been fully supported loved and cared for during which lockdown happened so we couldn’t access hospital appointments
lly for follow ups he is/has pushed me away he feels his masculinity as been taken from him … This is causing his depression to worsen .. I should have contacted you first for help as I clearly don
know what I’m doing … I contacted GP who just wanted to fish out anti depressants having told him they have side effects (he put them in the bin) I felt he needed to talk to somebody as to how he i
feeling, he won’t talk to me … I love him to the moon and back been married for over 30 years .. he also works away and all this is adding to the depression