I've had a good poke around, but am I correct that if my husband (late stage metastatic bowel cancer, 3 months of chemo plus surgery ahead) isn't collecting any benefits, that I can't claim anything as a carer? I've left my job (contract job for a charity, that I loved, but was quite full-on). Husband makes a decent salary, but we will struggle for a few months without the money I'd brought in as well. Are we just out of luck?