I’m hoping for a ray of hope. My husband has stage 4 melanoma. Recently found lesions on the brain and although we are positive we feel we should plan for the worst case. My husband owns 50% of a business which is currently being run by his business partner. This is our only income. I’m a stay at home mum as we have 3 children between us (one who lives with his mother and two aged 3 and 5). We live in rented accommodation but my husband owns a flat which he’s in the process of selling. He’s concentrating more on how we are going to be looked after than getting better. I don’t know how to unpick all of this. We don’t have loads of support hence why I’m a stay at home mother - child care would cost too much and we wanted this set up.