Getting used to it!

Hi Anna, I think it is really strange how people react to the news that someone has cancer. We are all different I suppose.

In my case, when I told my mother-in-law she asked, "Oh, how bad is that?" That coming from a woman who had lost her husband to cancer a few years previous. How do you answer something like that? I was flabbergasted, but just replied, "As bad as it gets!"

Like you, I had a lot of support from family and friends.

I hope you continue to get the support you need and I'm sure you will find loads of support on this site.

Best wishes,. Christine xx

Hi Anna,

     It does take a lot of geting used to I admit, but you will get there in the end. People react to the news in many different ways, some are very supportive, others seem to shy away. Take care,

Kath x

Hi Anna,

Yes My Friend this is where you find out exactly who your real friends are. Especially In-laws.

So you take it as it comes,where friends are concerned.Good Luck in your Radio treatment.

As for your Husband Have a chat in his ear. Let him know how you feel and that he should try and understand Just what its like to have Cancer.

Take care be safe and BIg Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

One neighbour, on hearing of my diagnosis, actually said, "Oh, when are you going to die, then?"   I didn't smack her in the mouth but perhaps I should have done?

You do find out who are your real friends - I hope you have some sincere friends who will be there to support you, but please remember the members of this site will be here to support you - and know exactly what has happened to you during your illness.

KateG

Thanks really appreciate your comments - cant believe what Kate G's neighbour said - people can be so rude and ignorant.  

Already finding the site tremendous support x