Well..... When I joined,I thought how nice to join a site where we all have something in common,despite the horridness of it,I thought at last a site with no nastiness. Well... I wrote a cheery tongue in cheek story and some poetry,which lots pm'd me or commented how it cheered them taking their minds off cancer. BUT.... in the chat room I was castigated by 2 women,in open chat,who complained that it wasnt what blogs…