Hit me like a tonne of bricks

Hi Lynne,

It will be hard honey you have lost your wonderful mum, you will have good and bad days but it does stop hurting as much with time,,,,,I just can't tell you how long that is different for each and everyone of us. Dont apologise for rambling this is what we are all here for to get all of those feelings out and we are all here for you.

take care love Terri xxx

hi lynn

try to share your grief with family , friends etc--it will help .things will get easier but i think you have to go through alot of hurt first .

take care & try to be strong

thank you terri and shannock, I know its going to be hard and I know we will get through this, its just going to be one tough journey but hopefully it will make us stronger.

xxxxxxxxx

hi lynn

((((HUG))))

you loved your mom,nothing prepares you for the feelings that creep up on you when you least expect them.

cry,scream,rant,whatever you feel inside but just be you.Dont put on a brave face if its not how you feel...Take your time.

love and hugs

Jules xxxx

Hello Lynnie

my heart goes out to you I know that feeling. When i felt like that after losing my dad, my best friend who lost her mum to cancer, told me it would be my lowest ebb. That made me feel very relieved and for me it turned out to be true. A very kindly old friend of my dad's told me after my dad died that it is the cost and privilege of a wonderful relationship with your parent that you feel such intense grief. Take very good care of yourself

xx