Before my diagnosis it would be fair to say I spent most of my time focusing on the standard First World obsession with conformance and consumerism. Stand out, but fit in. What postcode do you live in? How much do you earn? Are you married? How many children do you have? What car do you drive? Where do you holiday? All of these criteria were being nicely addressed, but crucially, in our overindulged society, never satisfied…