Signs from loved ones

Dearest Poodlepants,

Firstly this is my own opinion, Once your dead your dead thats it you dont go anywhere..

I dont mean to upset you and your thoughts you could be right I could be wrong.

Heaven or Hell do they dont they exist. Is there a God. Well we will have to wait and see. None of my Family who died and promised to come back and tell me,what its like. Im afraid I am still waiting.

Take care and be safe Love Sarsfield.XX

Hi Poodlepants...i believe it is your fiance letting you know hes still with you. I had a set of my mums housekeys on my keyring...after she passed away i couldnt bring myself to take the keys off it...it would have been like admitting she had gone..i was absolutely devastated...i was really struggling with it...i couldnt bear to even pass the street where she lived. A few months later i took my keys out of my bag and my mums keys werent on my keyring...i looked and found them on top of the unit in my living room...i asked my husband and sons if they had taken them off...they all said they hadnt. I believe it was my mum telling me she was ok and to let go now...i can't think of another explanation...it was a comfort in a way...she was telling me she was fine.

I do believe our lost loved ones communicate with us in some way...i hope your fiances little signals are a comfort to you too.....he's still with you...like he promised he would be..take care..love Sharon xxx

My husband saw exactly where he was going in the few hours before he passed, he saw where he was going and said that he needed to get there! Both his faith and mine have been a great comfort to me, and I know that I will be with him again one day.

Throughout the 17 months that my husband was ill I just didn't know how I would cope without him, I'd been with him for 13 years - he was my soulmate, we did everything together. Like you Poodlepants, my husband promised that he'd always be with me - and he is, I can't really explain it but I know he's here - I'm not alone. Carry on feeling his love Poodlepants x.

HI Poodlepants, I am a firm believer of signs from our loved ones, especially when we are troubled!!

My Father died, suddenly,10 years ago,never got to say Goodbye or tell him that I loved him but I know from things that have happened,he is always here when we need him!

My sister and I stayed at Mum's the night that Dad died, we had to share a double bed and chatted/cried for hours,couldn't sleep,eventually we decided to silently pray,asking God for the strength to remain strong for Mum. After we had finished we both lay in dark silence when suddenly the room seemed to fill up with a very strong,beautiful aroma,like the smell of beautiful flowers! I'll never forget that smell! We tried to find a logical reason,no flowers were in the house,no plug in airfresheners.........nothing! We never slept a wink,in the morning Mum came into our room,sat on the bed and told us that she could smell a beautiful,calming floral aroma in the middle of the night! We never said anything to her but we just knew that it was a sign from Dad!!!

Just one of many things that have happened since Dad passed and always at times of trouble or Special Occasions,I could write a book!

I truly believe in God and Heaven,big hugs,

                                         Alison.x

PP

Impossible to be sure. My family and I have seen many things since my dad died last year which just seem so much more than coincidence. So much so we think we need to start writing them down! Mostly it is rainbows and they often come at times when we have a big decision to make or we are particularly upset. It does seem to us like he is trying to give comfort or express an opinion at times when it matters. I got quite troubled by the idea of communication from my dad. I kept thinking does it mean he is trying to talk to us and nobody is acknowledging him? I found that idea quite terrible, to the extent where I considered seeing a spirit medium. But a very wise friend reasoned with me that I knew my dad so so well, that whenever a problem crops up, I always know in my heart what he really would say and if he can communicate at all, there is no reason why he would need to do it through a third person. I would say take these signs as a comfort and a chance to remember him with a smile and chat a few words to him. I think it is totally healthy to maintain the relationship, just not to expect you can ever have a face to face two way conversation in the flesh ever again. Once I accepted that I relaxed a great deal. xx