Tips on Getting Through Chemo & Radiation for Head & Neck Cancer Treatment

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I finished induction chemo (March, April & May) and concurrent chemo/radiation (end of May, June & first of July) on July 7th, 2015. Its now been 4 months and I thought i would share the things I read about and the things I did to get through treatment. This may or may not work for everyone but it cannot hurt.  

  1. Maintain Your Weight: I cannot stress enough the key to making treatment go easier is maintaining/gaining weight. Drink a lot protein drinks as a supplement (go to GNC) and never stop eating no matter what. Eat small to medium size meals 6-8 times a day. I maintained a caloric intake of 4,000 – 4,500 calories a day from March until July and gained 25 lbs. during treatment. I eventually lost 20 pounds from the last week of radiation until a month afterwards…but I felt fine. Never missed a day of work and always had my protein shake with me. I took steroids the day before, the day of and the day after chemo. This is very helpful in keeping an appetite and staying active.   
  2. Stay Active: It’s important to metabolize the chemo and get it out of your system. No matter what…get up and walk, move around, work out, etc. Lying in bed will only make you feel worse. The less active you are…the less you feel like eating…not good.
  3. Mouth Rinse: Oral hygiene is critical as chemo and radiation may give you mouth sores. I took a 32-ounce bottle of water with sea salt and baking soda and rinsed my mouth 30-40 times a day. If your mouth hurts or you have mouth sores, you won’t feel like eating…not good. 
  4. Take your meds. The doctors will prescribe a regimen of anti-nausea and pain meds. Take those as prescribed whether you need them or not. If you take your meds when your nauseas or in pain, it is too late. Stay on top of this and take meds around the clock as prescribed. The best anti-nausea med on the market is EMEND. The pill form was not covered by my insurance but IV was. Insist on getting EMEND. Don’t take no for an answer if you hear “no”.  Again, if you can avoid nausea, you’ll feel like eating and will continue to eat and stay healthy. The key is eating! Don’t be a hero and try to power through this. Take your meds!!!!
  5. Avoid People Who Are Sick: Wear your mask in public, keep hand sanitizers with you and do not get close to anyone with a cold or is otherwise sick. Your immune system will drop during chemo and you will not be able to fight infections. So…no shaving or anything that might cause a cut. After a while, shaving won’t be an issue. Once your temperature hits 100.4, it’s a strip to the emergency room (after hours) or the doctor’s office (during the day). Try to schedule chemo and radiation in the morning so if there are issues later on, the doctors will be around during the day.
  6. Stay hydrated: Drink at least a gallon of water every day. It is critical to stay hydrated and keep plenty of fluids in your body. When you get dehydrated, bad thing happen. They will hydrate you during chemo/radiation but it’s important to drink plenty of fluids around the clock. You will pee like a horse but it’s good to rinse your system.
  7. Avoid Diarrhea & Constipation: The doctors will prescribe over the counter and other diarrhea and constipation meds. It’s important to take those as needed depending on how your body reacts from day to day. You don’t want either and want to maintain healthy regular bowel movements. Either diarrhea or constipation will make you feel sluggish…tired and will affect your appetite. Again, you have to eat.
  8. Swallowing: No matter what, you have to continue to “swallow” throughout this ordeal. That is the other benefit of eating…swallowing. You don’t want to lose this muscle memory and you want your body to continue to separate “food” and “air” as both travel down your throat. You will be assigned a nutritionist and swallowing expert. Do the exercises they prescribe. It’s a pain in the butt but it’s much worse if you don’t.
  9. Positive Attitude: This is the most important…other than eating. Your attitude will dictate how you feel and start your day off good or bad. Bad attitude results in more stress…depression…loss of appetite…bad things.
  10. Dress/Clothes: Don’t dress like you’re sick or going through treatment. At every chemo infusion and radiation treatment, I was dressed in slacks, dress shoes, button down and a jacket. I avoided the “cancer treatment” clothes and went onto work after I was done. May not work for you…but it was my way of telling myself that “I am fine” and its business as usual. Folks around me dressed like they were sick…looked like they were sick and acted like they were sick.
  11. Frank Sinatra:  During every radiation session including MRIs, PETs, etc…I listened to Sinatra. Bring your own music or have them pipe in your music of choice.
  12. PIC Line: I had Stanford put in a catheter in my arm for all IVs and chemo. Insist on this at the very beginning. It will save you from being stuck a hundred times with needles and it will save your veins from the effects of chemo. The catheter dumps the chemo about 2” above your heart and mixes well throughout your system. They will change the dressing weekly but it’s well worth it.

The above are the things I did during treatment...with all of the chemo (18 rounds) and radiation (35 doses), I stuck to my plan and overall it was tough but manageable. The key is great attitude, eating and staying healthy. During the month after radiation, it was tough to swallow but i ate anyways and continued my swallowing exercises. It's now 4 months post treatment and i feel almost back to normal. A little sore some days but overall I feel great. I kept my weight on during treatment and took my meds no matter how I felt and my experience was better than most.

I hope this helps!!!  

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Wow thanks for all that time you've spent , i'm looking for things to help my sister-in-law, i will defiantly show her this  Thanks 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Good luck to your sister-in-law. She will need a lot of love and support. My wife was amazing through my treatment and I am grateful for her love and support. Your sister-in-law needs to laugh a lot and have reasons to smile. She will need folks to be understanding and kind. Best wishes to her and her family. 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi thank you so much for taking the time to write this im looking to find helps for my sister-in-law and i think this is just what im looking for for her to read .

    So hope all carries on going well for you and thanks again.

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    sorry i didn't realise comments don't come up straight away and thought id forgotten to press post LOL

    STILL LEARNING HOW TO USE THIS SITE!!

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    No worries...a couple of other things I forgot to add above...

    1. Feeding Tube: Some oncologist like the feeding tube right away and others do not. I think all would agree that if you can maintain eating and maintain your weight, they would prefer not having a feeding tube. The reason being...all want you to eat and more importantly to continue, "swallowing". I made myself eat when I did not feel like eating...chewed bland gum to continue the act of "swallowing" and did my swallowing exercises. The consensus seems to be..that if you continue to "swallow" during treatment you will not lose muscle memory, you're less likely to choke and/or have food go down the wrong way as you’re actively breathing and eating. Air and food take a different path (obviously) and continuing to get your body to manage both is key to short-term and long-term recovery. Even if you have a feeding tube, the oncologist and others will want you to try to eat, swallow and do swallowing exercises.

    2. Lidocaine: Lidocaine is a topical pain med used by dentist to numb your mouth before most dental procedures. My doctor prescribed lidocaine and I used a cotton swab to douse my mouth and upper throat before every meal. It worked really well. It's important to not swallow the lidocaine so as not to interfere with your gag reflex. However, I used lidocaine often in an effort to avoid narcotics and was able to use narcotics on a limited basis. But...with the slightest hint of pain, I used everything prescribed by the doctors to avoid it. Again, no need to be a hero and power through pain...avoid at all cost and be as comfortable as possible.

    3. Losing Taste: Between the chemo and the radiation, it is highly likely you will lose your taste...I did. It is a surreal sensation to see food and smell food you’ve eaten all your life and then the taste is completely different. I tried different things to get through this from closing my eyes to holding my nose to just eating as fast as I could to get the food down. The good news is it will not last forever and eventually your taste will come back.

    4. Foods to Avoid/Have Water Ready to Wash Down: I struggled with dry foods like bread, rice, potatoes, etc. Even today, I struggle with dry foods. You need carbs…so have plenty of water ready to wash it down.

    5. Cancer Fighting Cook Book: My wife got a great cookbook and cooked meals that were “easier” to eat. The recipes have ginger and other ingredients that more often than not work with various chemos. Cisplatin leaves a metallic taste in your mouth and “ginger” seemed to work well.

    6. Fighting the Good Fight: For me, I have a wonderful wife and three wonderful daughters watching “dad” go through treatment and recovery. It was important for me to try to have a “normal” as possible life while going through treatment. That’s why I dressed in business attire while having chemo and radiation and then went on to work regardless of how I felt. Even at work, I tried to keep a “business as usual” persona for myself and my co-workers. Your family and others want to help and will feed off how you are doing. My wife and daughters were concerned and it was important for me as a husband and a father to protect them as much as I could. There were limits to what I could or would do...heavy lifting was typically out so I couldn't pick up my daughters...the week after chemo when my blood count was at its lowest, I avoided kissing my family or having anyone in my face. When I felt like I needed rest, I rested. Being active doesn't mean you'll need to run a marathon...

    7. Accepting Help From Others: Always accept help from others!!! For many…me and many others…this is not in our nature. Put that aside…no one can go through cancer treatment alone. We had friends and family watch our kids, drop off meals, etc. Very helpful and cathartic to receive and accept kindness and generosity from people around you.