relative with cancer

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Hello all

This is my first posting, so please be gentle.

10-12 weeks ago I came home from work & found a close relative had been stuck in a chair for 4 & a half hours. Anyway, long story short she was diagnosed with a glioblastoma (forgive the spelling if it's wrong, I haven't mastered the art of being upset & typing a blog post at the same time).

I know & understand it's incurable - I know and understand that she needs to be kept as comfortable as possible, but I'm becoming slightly frustrated as I'm not sure if , by carrying on as "normally as possible" if this is the "right thing to do"?

I've been told I "over analyse " things, but I'm finding that it's the only way that I can cope with what's going on.

Any thoughts?

Anonymous