16th April

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FormerMember

16 Apr 2018

Met with mum's doctor today . Although they are still waiting for some results from all the tests, today they confirmed what we had already guessed, that there is little they can do for mum other than keep her comfortable. Whilst upsetting, it's not a shock. We are due to meet palliative care team to discuss care etc, but a move to a hospice is on the cards. I know some people have strong feelings about being at home, but in my heart I am happy that mum had chosen this.

There was just the three of us, me, my brother and mum. Whilst there were many tears, in some way it was therapeutic. Mum spoke in a very matter of fact manner about what she wanted us to do with the house and belongings. Think she was reassured and told us she wasn't scared, she had people waiting for her, and listed all of our close relatives that have passed away over the years.

There's stuff to sort out, but it will get done. For now, it's time to concentrate on what matters. My beautiful loving caring mum.

FormerMember over 6 years ago

hopping all the best for your whole family. the waiting is the worst imo. i was diagnosed with lung cancer approx 1yr 4 months ago. was told after chemo/radiotherapy that it had done what they expected, shrunk from 5cm to 2 cm told me that if it returned it would been sooner rather than later. have recently seen chest doctor concerned re shadow, have now been put forward for a biopsy (camera) it's the waiting thats the worse
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