I am 46 years old and my world was been turned upside down.
I found a lump on the right side of my neck, now this lump had appeared back in May 2017 for about 2 weeks but disappeared as quick as it came. Therefore I left it and typically ignored it. So NOW this lump is back........I waited two weeks it didn't go, attended GP's advised to have antibiotics for one week if still there to come back at get referred for ultrasound.
The telephone call for the PET scan came late on the friday evening, this scan request worried me. Its a PET scan I couldn't help thinking they use this test to STAGE!!!! OMG this means ive got cancer!!! I got to prepare my family for this!!!
MY MIND WAS ON OVERDRIVE.
Anyway i'm the type of person who likes to protect everyone else's feelings even if it means neglecting mine.
I attended both Scans not the most pleasant experiences but hey ho needs must!!
D-DAY 22nd November 2017 (my husbands birthday)
I went to clinic with my husband and son as I knew it was bad news!!! (don't get me wrong I'm not a quivering mess or woo me). They are both trying to be positive. The clinic was delay by an hour due to delivering bad news to another patient...... my son (26) bless him said oh that means your ok! I explained its doesn't quiet work that way.
We went into the room and there was my answer right there!!!!!! .......... The cancer diagnosis........the BIG C and no one had even said a word. ................The Macmillan nurse sat there in the room!!!
The consultant examined me and then said unfortunately I had cancer, the fine needle aspiration of my neck lymph node had shown cancerous cells. The MRI scan had confirmed my Right tonsil to be the primary.
The PETCT results are not back!!!
The likely pathway as explained that day in clinic is.
This is if the PET hasn't changed the outcome. The results are back but the consultant has to tell me and that will be biopsies surgery day.
So fingers crossed it has spread anywhere else.
Is my planned pathway much different to anyone elses?
I will update with staging !
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