where is the line to be crossed

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I have an op for vulva cancer in 2007 and although I am grateful that they removed a tumor, I am distressed at the fact the consultant involved removed more than she should of done, did not record it and then has denied she has removed anything more than what is in my notes. Unfortunately up until recently consultants, doctors and even FGM nurses have covered up for the doctor and despite asking them to show me where my organs are, they continued to just say "it looks normal" yes my vulva looks normal, but it is my vagina (which is not and never has been affected) that has missing bits. Looking into this, what she has done to me is defined as FGM (Female Genital Mutilation) as it is illegal in this country to remove anything in that region for non medical purposes. Since then I have found out there is many women this has happened to, who have been left in severe distress over their treatment and the attiutude of doctors to cover it up. unfortunately though we have never been given a voice and I am constantly told they are doctors they can do what they want - it is not my body and do I not have the right to say what does and doesn't happen to it.  has anyone else had this experience???

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  • You seem pretty well informed  and will be aware that under the present law that they are not allowed to carry out whatever they like but what is current acceptable practise , governed by their professional body who will submit any complaint to peer review to ensure that clinical intervention is in keeping with professional intervention. This can also be reviewed by the ombusman. As you state it is mutilation this should then be easy to prove.

    My mum is a stage four cancer patient who has been gutted like a fish. I find the whole thing traumatic, but what choices do we have. You clearly believe that this is malpractise and not getting a wide margin on your second operation and to that end as we do not have the knowledge base to assess this, it would be inappropriate to comment.

    Have you thought about setting up a support group.?

    Hope you manage to get over this trauma.

    Kind regards

    Court

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Could you reply to me if you have a minute too spare , as I have been searching and have been for first biopsy, then multiple biopsies and don't feel the same as before ,sorry I have vin 3 and I am upbeat most of  my life but this is terrifying me ,I have just turned 44 so not ancient xx