Post 219: Another Day in Bed.

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24 Nov 2025

There’s nothing to say that I didn’t already say yesterday — I’m in bed and pretty much stuck here.

The pain is now more focused on certain muscles and joints mostly on the left, sitting anywhere between a 7 and 9 out of 10 depending on what movement I dare attempt.

That said, I can get comfortable and I can sleep, so I’m not in continuous pain. But if I’m asleep, I can wake up suddenly and uncomfortably, probably thanks to some dream or more likely nightmare movement.

You’ll be glad to know I called the Hospice for help after two days in bed with this pain.

A follow-up call was coming anyway this week, but I need help sooner rather than later.

Meanwhile, my Darling is on day two of her phased return to work. She’s happy to be back with colleagues she hasn’t seen since the last time I occupied an A&E bed — so it’s been a while thankfully.

May I wish you all a great Monday. I hope it’s pain-free and happy.

Good night.

Mono25 16 hours ago

Mr U, I’m really sorry to hear how difficult these past couple of days have been for you. That level of pain,sharp, unpredictable, and enough to wake you suddenly from sleep,must be completely draining. The way you describe it sitting between a 7 and 9 with even the smallest movement says so much about what you’re bravely pushing through. You show more strength than you probably realise.

I’m really glad you reached out to the Hospice for help. Knowing when to ask for extra support is not weakness,it’s wisdom, and it’s courage. You’ve carried so much on your own shoulders, and you deserve comfort and guidance, especially with radiotherapy coming up on Wednesday. It’s a lot for anyone to face, and I hope the Hospice team can help you manage things until then and support you through whatever the next stage brings.

It’s good to hear that you’re at least able to get some sleep, even if it’s interrupted and unsettled. I hope tonight is gentler, fewer sudden wake-ups, fewer painful jolts, and more moments where your body can rest without fear of triggering anything.

And it’s lovely news about your Darling being back at work and reconnecting with people she hasn’t seen in a long while. I imagine that bit of routine brings her some steadiness in the middle of everything. The way you speak about her always shows such love and tenderness, it’s clear how close you both are.

Wishing you a softer, calmer start to the week, Mr U, I hope the Hospice support brings you some relief, and that the days leading up to Wednesday are as gentle as possible. Thank you for sharing yo journey so openly, your honesty means more than you know. Take good care
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