The unknown

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FormerMember

10 Dec 2010

Hi guys,

Mum has put up a good fight for over three years now, we've battled on and kept her strong as a family but yesterday recieved a devastating blow that I'm not sure how to deal with. At 21 I'm trying to come to terms that I may not have my mum around for much longer...her chemo hasn't worked again and the cancer has spread. There are limited options left now. I have no idea how to feel or what to do. The thought that this could be my last Christmas with her terrifies me. I'm struggling to understand what the options are. I dare'nt ask any questions yet as everyone is still numb from the shock. Her first option is to have some other type of chemo which will hospitalise her and the second are some trials.

FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi Jmay,

My thoughts are with you your Mum and Family.

I send you all my strength,support and comfort, and hope your Mums not in pain and at peace. You look after yourself.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hello Jmay,

My mum has recently gone treatment in Australia. She lives in Fiji and because there is not treatment in Fiji we had to take her to Aust. After returning to Fiji she is still having lot of pain and worse thing is that the medical facility in Fiji is not as good as in Aust or UK. Doctors and Fiji say that there is nothing they can do and have to live things to god. I have strong faith in god but I just wish my mum was in a more develop country where she could get better treatment.

I spend a month in August in Aust when she was undergoing treatment and could see how much pain she was going through. I feel so down as I am so far from my mother and cannot be there for her.

I really feel for you and just stay positive. 'Hope' is still there....
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Thank you for your kind words. My love and faith are with you and your family. Xx
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Thanks :)
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