just when you think your doing well

I think you should call her - that is what they are there for and it doesn't matter if you do only need a rant.  They have to know how you are feeling and perhaps just talking to someone professional will help you to relax.  Go on lift the phone.

kindest regards

Christine

Poor Sarah - that horrid feeling of not being able to settle to anything; wanting to do things but not having the energy.  And aching all over . . .  I feel the same at the moment but it's mostly my upper arms which hurt and my legs.  Am I right that this was your second cycle?  How long does the aching last for?  I usually find it goes on for 3 days in total, so I'm expecting to feel fine tomorrow.  I do hope you're soon feeling much better - your children are so small it must be difficult for them to understand that you're not up to your usual form.  Hope the nurse arrives soon - and that you're over this very soon and feeling fine in time for Christmas.

Hugs, Kate xxx

thank you for your replys, kate2003 yes this is my second time completly different to the 1st its taken me a few days to get to this stage whereas last it hit me straight away, i just feel so useless. Its hard as my little boy 20months keeps coming up and giving me kisses and cuddles and rubbing my head its heartbreaking, my girls who are 3 & 5 just say you will be better soon eh mummy and my oldest just keeps quiet, the world can be such a cruel place at times. I have a scan tomorrow i just hope i feel a bit better as i dont think i could be bothered if i felt like this, also its 1 month early to its a suprise if you could call it a suprise. I have not heard from her so i will give her a call even if its just a chat on the phone.

Love Sarah x x x

Thinking of you. Have you spoken to nurse yet ?

Maggs xx

hi-i agree - you should call the nurse - have you been taking your temperature? how is it? you have to be careful and that is why it is important to keep in touch with your nurse-my nurse told me that they would only be annoyed if i didn't ring them and something was really wrong - they would much prefer to be able to say everything is fine or even for them to check me over - in the long run that is why they are there - to make things as comfortable as possible for us - i hope you are soon feeling better and that you have seen your nurse - take care - karen - xoxo