Messages from and to a Sunflower.

2 minute read time.

This is just for friends of Sunny Leith. The rest of you, please skip over this blog.

I have been staring at this for 2 hours worrying if it comes across ok and is it going to cause bother etc so am just going to shut my eyes and press send cos life is too short. My intentions are honorable.

A friend has just said the phrase 'least said soonest mended' as I was writing this and I am going to take that advice and delete most of what I wrote here  as I think she is right.....  especially in this case (wise lady... wish I had a mum to tell me wise stuff ah well, good job I got a few  good ones on here eh? )

hang on... delete....  delete...  delete... hmmm yeah, delete... oh and that... delete... Ok. There. Short blog for me eh? Won't last!  

 I have to blog cos I have to fulfill a promise and I promised a dear friend I would pass on a message.

Sunny Leith says Hi and sends her love. She is ok (well, you know what I mean, not angry, or sad type of ok, the rest we know about) Mags gets her scan results next week. She will miss her friends and sends them her love. She does not want to cause any upset at all  to anyone by leaving.

She sent a longer message explaining things and why she left, but I don't think it is helpful to say it here so what I suggest is that if anyone would like to or needs to understand more deeply, they pm me and I will send it to them in a pm. I will not discuss it with them though. Before anyone starts thinking What?? is she being rude?? and getting firey or anything... No she is not. I just feel these things should be private to whom they concern, not public  and if you think they concern you, ask and I will send it on but I will not talk about it with you.

All this is, is a opportunity for those who want, to say bye and pass on good wishes etc. If you comment with a message to Ann, I will copy them and email them to her.

Please do not comment on anything else at all. If you do, I will delete it. I do not want to start up any discussion whatsoever on this, just fulfill a promise to a friend to be able to  say bye and for those who love her to say bye to her. I will pass on good wishes only. anything else will be deleted. OK? If you wish to say anything more personal to her such as email addresses or anything, please pm me.

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The line is drawn as far as I am concerned. No more. I can't cope. I just don't want to know.

 For those of you that are still here and bewildered, Don't ask please. Least said, soonest mended.   

A big hug to all of you

Little My xx

ps my new friends, if you carried on reading, don't go away wondering where the loony tales are... I promise next blog will be back to normal of the 'Mostly silly stories of a  loony with anal cancer' in the meantime, go back in time if you want a giggle. Plenty there....  

Right, off to find my inner loony.. cos I lost her this week... I'm sure I left her round here somewhere... perhaps she's hiding in the shiny things shop....

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Well said and well done, LM, message received and understood. No more fretting, ok? You have been and are a very good friend to Sunny (Ann). I miss her and wish her well, but I won't pry.

    Looking forward to your next blog! Love & hugs,

    xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Please go and get her from shiney shop and pick up some shinies while you there, you deserve them, lots and lots of them, and tell P his adopted mummy said so....

    Just let Sunny know I miss the sunflowers but that whatever is right for her is ok here 2, love you lots dear lady and hope the sun is out for you today and always xxx and if you ever feel you want to come back we will all party big time xx Hope for the very best for you and your daughter, Take care xx A big thanks for all your support x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Ann,

    I'm so glad we had a chance to meet, if only for a short time.  I wish you well and I truly hope that Mags has some good news from her scan, I hope the future brings you peace, happiness and joy.  Thank you for listening to me and being there for me, your knowledge is incredible, but sadly only due to your own circumstance.  Will continue to think of you and keep everything crossed for a smooth ride (I know Little My thinks bumpy is good but I think you now deserve some smooth).  Take care lovely, Molly xx

    Thanks Little My xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Just wanted to say that I hadn't been on the site long enough to get to know Sunny properly so can't be classed as a friend,and I really don't want to know why she left, but I did feel a connection with this amazing lady just by reading things(bloggs,messages etc) and I was just about to ask if I could be a friend because I felt if  there was one person I could really talk to if I needed it.....it would be Sunny.  Luckily for me there are other amazing people here and I know I will never be without a friend should I need one.       So please Little My tell her from me I wish her all the very best for the future XXXX    Colette                        

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Big hugs Little My   (((((()))))  I haven't been here long enough to know you well but am here to hand hold on bad days.

    Amanda