so tired, worried and fed up :-(

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errol is on his 3rd course of stutent, 1st course only managed 2 week, 2nd course managed 3 weeks but this time we have have still got 2 weeks to go but i dont think it will be possible, he cannot keep his eyes open and is very confused, this happened last time and was admitted to hospital his calcium level was slightly raised weekend on a drip and no better, pain is worse , everyone is great district nurse is our angel, doctor brill, but i am so scared never knowing what the next day will bring, i feel so helpless

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Teresa, I know how horrible it is watching our loved ones suffer like this and feeling so helpless.

    I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better, but I'm afraid I can't think of anything. Just know that we are here for you when you need to offload.

    Best wishes, Christine xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Teresa,

    Yes its very hard to deal with a loved one in Pain,the

    good thing is he has a good medical team behind him. Your not helpless your there for him,when he needs Caring Love and Understanding you are there to hold his hand and talk to him,and give him the support he needs.

    Take care and be safe Big HUgs Love Sarsfield.xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Teresa, you are doing the most important thing and that is being there for errol. He knows that you love and support him and although we always wish there was something more we could do it does sound as if  he is getting good medical care.

                   This situation is very draining, mentally and physically and although you want to be with errol, please take a little time for yourself. Pop out for coffee with a friend or whatever gives you a break. It will refresh you and  enable you to continue giving errol such wonderful support.

                     Very best wishes to you both,

                                     Love lizzie xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Teresa, you are doing the most important thing and that is being there for errol. He knows that you love and support him and although we always wish there was something more we could do it does sound as if  he is getting good medical care.

                   This situation is very draining, mentally and physically and although you want to be with errol, please take a little time for yourself. Pop out for coffee with a friend or whatever gives you a break. It will refresh you and  enable you to continue giving errol such wonderful support.

                     Very best wishes to you both,

                                     Love lizzie xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I know from experience how hard it is to watch a loved one suffer and feel so helpless.  

    But it sounds like you have a lot of support and there is always somebody on here to lend a listening ear.

    Remember that you are doing what you can, i.e. being there for him and loving him with all your heart.  

    Lots of love and *hugs*

    Marjorie x x x x x