Panic !!!

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Well its the day before Dads funeral and the panic has set in!!!!

I've tried to keep busy organising things cleaning the house as if the queen is coming and nothing has helped this feeling of panic and dread that i'm having to have to say goodbye to my Dad, i really dont want tomorrow to come yet i know it will and i know with the help of family and friends i will survive it but i cant get over this feeling, i just dont know where i'm going the find the strength from !!!!!!!!!!

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Suzie,

    OK Tomorrow will be tough I know - but you wil be kept busy and you will cope ! Its OK to shed tears you know ?

    Easy for me to say but hard for you to do, tomorrow you are Celebrating the life of a very special person man - your Dad - in your mind you need to picture him holding your hand, giving you strength and maybe the most imortant thing - smiling at you.

    I know you can do it. You will have time later to grieve, do not dread tomorrow - he was a very special person and you are his daughter.

    Love and Hugs

    J X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I was in the same situation this week and i had constant alarm bells ringing even on the morning of the funeral. I felt as if my heart was being ripped out but when i got to the crem and looked at all the family and friends who loved him so much i knew he would be proud of what a good send off we had given him. I was still filled with so much sadness and loss but i honestly felt him there with me and somehow i got the strength to get through it.

    Im still feeling all these emotions and my only consolation is that i now know he isnt suffering.

    Ill be thinking you of you tommorow and sending you some strength to get through the day but i know with your dad by your side he will help you through it.

    Nicola xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Suzie

    You will be in my thoughts tomorrow

    Love and hugs

    Max xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    from somewhere the strength will come, tomorrow is the dad not only for goodbye but to celebrate your dad with those who knew and loved him best, and its that reason that will get you through the day.

    Best wishes for tomorrow and you will be in my thoughts

    love Vikki xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Suzie,

    You will get your strength from all your friends on the site. My thoughts are with you tonight. May

    your Dad R.I.P.

    Take care and be safe Sarsfield.xx