The first of the firsts!

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FormerMember

15 Aug 2011

Today would have been my Mum's 63rd birthday, she passed away on the 1st June. I always knew it was going to be hard but have been in floods of tears since getting up. Even facebook is conspiring to make me cry by showing me status updates from previous years on this date, 'going to take my beatiful brave Mum the cake me and the girls have made', 'Mum's birthday going to spoil her rotten' etc.

My gorgeous thoughtful girls want to do something for their Nanny so we are going to get a big red heart ballon and tie some messages to it and send it off for her to read. Life goes on but it is not the same, she fought so hard for so long and none of us wanted to see her suffer anymore but I miss her so much :-( So Happy Birthday Mum I bet wherever you are you have a glass of Rose in one hand and a fag in the other and you are smiling as you proudly watch all your amazing grandchildren.

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FormerMember over 14 years ago

dear mummys girl

how i feel for you.the firsts are horrible...my dad died may 27th this year and 3 weeks later i got married..so bloody hard not having my dad give me away but i knew he was there with me all day as he is most days..2 days after the wedding we had fathers day...so bloody hard too but on a positive note i did the race for life so felt i was giving back too

thinking of u lots

wendie x x
FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi Mummys girl,

You and your Family are going through a rough time with your Mums Birthday being today. But you are going the right way about easing the hurt. Just by you and the kids sending her a heart shaped balloon with some lovely messages on it. Im sure she is looking down and smiling and is very proud of you and her grandchildren. May your

Mum R.I.P.. Look after yourself.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx
FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi Mummys Girl,

The firsts are awful. My dad died on May 27th of lung cancer and we've so far had first 'friend's party', my 5th wedding anniversary and first Bury FC match of the season without him. Coming up in the next month we've got his and mum's 31st wedding anniversary and my birthday without him. December is going to be a world of fun as we've got his 52nd birthday without him on the 23rd and Christmas. I'm so glad your lovely children are making it an event to celebrate and recall happy memories with her. It's all hard, I know. Thinking of you, Vikki x